July 19, 2009

Another busy week for us, especially for Ally. She had VBS (Vacation Bible School) at church Monday – Thursday evening from 6-8:30 pm, plus she had preschool Tuesday and Thursday all day long. She loved VBS and she did very well. I was a crew leader as well, which meant that I was “in charge of three preschoolers”…which in turn meant nine, not three. I did have help, but it was still a lot to handle. I had to take the group of kids from adventure to adventure: crafts, bible story, snack, games, and bible adventure. It was quite the learning experience for me, but I would do it again in a heartbeat! Seeing the kids having fun and learning about God was awesome, not just for me, but for the kids at well.

All week we learned about Moses. (See Ally and her friends around the ‘burning bush’.) Each night they had a snack that portrayed the lesson for the day. And each of the games they played also dealt with the story. The crafts on the other hand were a little out of reach of the story, but they were still pretty fun for the kids. Pictured here is Ally with her friend Lizzy.

On the last night, we discussed Jesus’ crusifiction and how he died on the cross for our sins. And He actually showed up and took all our sins away! (Ally loved seeing Jesus!) Each day we learned a new saying:
Day 1: God is always with us.
Day 2: God is powerful.
Day 3: God does what he says he’ll do.
Day 4: God gives us life.
Today in church was the 5th day of VBS. We learned that God cares for us. All the kids got up in front and sang some of the songs for the congregation. Of course Ally wasn’t too fond of this idea…so she just stood there with a frown. She really wanted Jesus to come back, but he didn’t.

What a great week! I can’t wait for next year…ALL three girls will go…oh boy!

July 12, 2009

What a week…

Ally started preschool! What a great milestone in all of our lives! Monday morning Jerry and I took her for a short visit so she could see the room where she will be and to meet her teachers and some new friends in her classroom. She loved it, of course. Jerry and I have been prepping her for quite awhile now about school and that neither “mommy nor daddy” stays with her when she goes to school. So Tuesday morning I woke her up, she woke up with a smile on her face, ready to go to school. She got dressed, I got her some juice for the car ride and she said she’d eat breakfast at school…so we were off. We got to school and she was ready to play, but I had to fill out some medical forms because of her allergy to peanuts. Once I was done, I gave her a hug and a kiss and she went off to start playing. About ½ hour later I got a phone call from the preschool, but they just wanted to make sure she could have eggs because her paperwork said she was allergic to eggs, which technically she is, but she’s never had a reaction, so she eats them all the time. I picked her back up after I got out of work and she was EXHAUSTED! She crashed that night!
Then comes Friday…Jerry had his surgery. He had a bi-lateral mastectomy. Originally we were supposed to be at the hospital at 10:30, but the day before the surgery they pushed it back to 11:45…so I worked a ½ day and then came home and got him. We got to the hospital about 11:50 and he got registered, then we waited. The nurse came to get him around 12:30, prepped him slowly with his IV, meds, etc…the poor nurse, I felt so sorry for her, Jerry was giving her a hard time. All he wanted was food, a burger to be exact. She kept saying “NO” and I kept laughing at him. Then she would say, “you’re not starving.” He would go into something else with her, and I would just in-directly call him fat….and the nurse and I would start laughing. Anyway, long story short, the 1:15 surgery time turned into 2:03. Finally he was wheeled away and I was left by myself. It was a little strange for me…so I went to the cafĂ© to eat and I called Jerry’s mom to tell him about his surgery, since she had no idea (nope Jerry didn’t even tell him mom he was having surgery). After I ate, I went back to the waiting room, and waited…and waited…until finally the doctor came out and told me he was done and he did fine and he was in recovery, but I couldn’t see him for another hour. So an hour and a half of surgery, a hour of recovery, then I could see him, but then he had to go to ‘short stay’ for 3 more hours, yup, THREE more hours! AAHHH, we were there FOREVER! Luckily I have a great friend that came to stay with the girls while we were at the hospital! I’m not sure where the girls would’ve gone otherwise, possibly home by themselves. So once I went back to see him, I thought he was sleeping, but low and behold he was just resting. I sat down nice and quietly and he said “did you bring me food?” I started laughing and said “NO”. All he wanted was a burger, still. After he ate jello, crackers, a ham & cheese sandwich, he got his burger and a coke! Finally around 7:00 he was discharged and we finally made it home by 8:00. What a long day in the hospital! And since, he’s doing fine, just sore.
Yesterday Ally had a birthday party for her friend Maddy. Aunt Anne took Ally and Jude, while I took Ava, Lauren, & Olivia (I think I got the better end of the deal, they all took naps for me). When Ally got home, we noticed her eye looked a little red, then it started getting goocky…not a good sign…PINK EYE! We watched it and it started getting a little worse, but then looked ok. We went to Patti’s to say good bye to Kristi & Steve and the kids, they were headed back to the NC today. We ate dinner, the kids played, and we went home to bed. This morning Ally woke up and her eye was completely closed shut. So I called the doctor and got her a prescription. I’m still not 100% sure it’s pink eye, but I’m not taking any chances, she WILL be going to VBS this week and she WILL be going to school this week! (What a nice mommy I am!) The only thing I can think of is that she got it from school, so she can give it back! As the day went on today her eye looked better. We’re not taking any chances and will keep putting the drops in, but the eye did look a lot better and no more goock!

So tonight we went to Aunt Amy’s parent’s house to see Uncle Paul and Aunt Amy. They got back from their honeymoon on Thursday night and tonight we had a family get together to see them open their presents. They got a lot of nice things and are excited to start their life together! The girls were really excited to see them, since they’ve been asking to see them for the past 2 weeks while they were gone. We’re all glad their home safe and sound!
I’m exhausted! And this week isn’t going to be any more relaxing for me!

July 4th weekend, 2009

What a great weekend, tiresome, but great! We were busy at usual with lots of fun activities. The girls made it and will be crabby for about 3 straight days...oh well, they'll get over it, (but Jerry might not).
We started off going camping in Newaygo with a few other couples and their kids. We drove the "bus" yet again, and it made it, yet again (my parents' bus on the other hand...well we won't go there). Anyway, we got to the campground around 3:00 on Friday because I had some homework issues that needed to get taken care of before we set off. We parked and settled in, made some dinner, and played for awhile before the kids had to go to bed.
Saturday morning we slept in, made some bacon and eggs for breakfast, packed up our things and headed to Patti's cottage on Bill's Lake. Kristi, Steve, and the kids are up from NC, they came for Paul's wedding and will be here for a total of 2 weeks (they're leaving this Saturday). We LOVE when they visit because they only come up twice a year. Anyway, we spent the whole day with the Crow family and my mom and Bob were there too. The girls loved playing in the water and going on the boat.
(A new found family...Lauren, Kristi, Ally, & Jerry! Aren't they cute?)The weather was crap until about 5:00 and then the sun came out and it got a little warmer. We went to Rob & Dynl's cottage for fireworks because their neighbor hung 150,000 firecrackers from the trees and lit them off at dark. (It was amazing!)It was the loudest thing I've heard in a long time! The girls were in the cottage because it was SO loud! I did go in there to be with them because they're not always fond of loud noises. After the firecrackers were done we went back outside, lit sparklers roasted marshmellows, and watched the fireworks around the lake. It was an awesome night and I think we're going to make this our new 4th of July tradition! After fireworks, we went back to the campground to sleep. This morning we woke up, ate some breakfast, packed the 'bus' up and went back to Patti's cottage. We didn't plan to stay, but we're easily convinced since the sun was shining and I needed some sun! Steve took the kids (not mine) tubing and I spotted, then when Skylar was done, I hopped on the tube and went tubing with Drew. We had fun, until he was done...then Steve made Jerry spot Kristi and I tubing...needless to say Steve wasn't all that nice to us. We both flew off once each, which wasn't too bad since the water was really rough and I couldn't see a darn thing because the water was splashing in my face the WHOLE ENTIRE TIME! All in all it was fun and a nice break from the cold weather and no sunshine.

So now we're back home, back to more homework, and back to work in 2 days.

June - the whole month

So I had malfunctions with my computer and when I got it back, after it got fixed, I couldn’t download pictures from my camera…so low and behold I asked my genious cousin Amy to help me. She is a genious you know, I never would have thought to just put my memory card directly into the computer to download my pictures. Yes, that’s all it took. I could’ve updated this thing a LONG time ago if I would’ve thought of that myself. Oh well, I can just say, “I’ve been too busy! No time to update this.” It’s my story and I’m sticking to it!

So, what’s been happening, the WHOLE month of June, you ask? A lot! Let me bring you up to speed.

First, we took the girls to church for a fun Saturday June morning. The children’s director had organized a bus full of gymnastics things to come to the church for the little people to play in, little people meaning 0-3 years old. The girls found this to be quite fun, until grandma showed up. Then all they wanted to do was play with grandma, they love their grandma!

Second, I had attended many bridal showers for Amy, my new sister-in-law. Plus I, along with her sister Kari, gave Amy a ‘bachelorette party’ at my house. Amy was not looking forward to this night, as she’s not much of a partier. We promised to be nice to her, but when the stripper showed up, she just about KILLED me! Of course she had no idea it was a joke, until he said “just kidding, I’m just Kristen’s neighbor!” It was hilarious!
Amy & George, my neighbor!

Third, one Monday morning, I met three of my old neighbors, who I grew up with, and their kids at Cascade Township park. We ate lunch and chatted while the kids all played together. There were us four adults and 10 kids all together. It was a blast to get us all together and see all the kids playing. Hopefully we can do this again in the future! I love reunions! Lindsey (Koby & Kyan), Missy (Evan & Alex), Carrie (Bretton, Connor, Lily), Me (the girls)

Four, a big practice for the girls at the church for the wedding day…my girls had never been to the church that Amy and Paul were getting married in. We weren’t sure how they were going to do walking down the aisle at the wedding, so we wanted to have some practice time. We took the girls to the church to let them ‘walk’ down the aisle. As it turned out, the little girls had NO problem, but Ally was a little sceptical (go figure). After about 10-15 minutes she finally ran, because she doesn’t know how to walk, down the aisle. The girls had their fun of running to Uncle Paul and then they practiced a little walking too. After the practice we all went to Paul’s house for a little bbq chicken on the grill. Mmmm, it was good food!

Two naughty little girls (Maddie, Amy's neice, and OG) throwing rocks into the fish pond.

The mom's relaxing.

All but one of the little girls almost drown in the hot tub. Thanks Aunt Amy for saving them (and sorry you got a little wet in the process).Fifth, Ally’s friend across the street has a tent that she liked to set up in their yard and even in the house. Josie, the neighbor girl, even slept in her tent during a nap one day…so of course Ally wanted to sleep in a tent too. So Jerry being the bright one decided to put up the tent in Ally’s room and have her sleep in it at bedtime. Unfortunately he didn’t remember how big the tent actually was. We were struggling to put up the tent for a little while, but finally got it up and both Ally and Jerry had to test it out. The next day it came down. Sixth, Fathers Day! Fathers day was a little bit rough for Jerry, but we muddled through and I think it turned out ok. The day before Fathers Day Jerry had two side jobs, therefore that left me with the girls all day, which normally isn’t a big deal, but I had a paper due the day after Fathers Day and I just couldn’t get motivated to write it. So on Fathers Day Jerry had a nice time with his girls while I sat in our bedroom writing a paper. It really wasn’t too bad for him since he did sleep in and then he had to run to the store real quick (without the girls) and then while I wrote my paper the girls were taking a nap, so please don’t feel too bad for him. After nap time we all met my mom, Bob, Paul, and Amy at Cascade Township Park for dinner and playing. My mom and Bob came from up north, so they had the motorhome and parked it right in the parking lot. It was pretty funny since it’s a park, not a campground. But it worked out fine and we all ate and played.

Jerry finally got him Sham Wows! for father's day. He was so excited, as you can see! Grandpa filling up the squirt guns for the girls.
The girls decided it would be funny to squirt their belly's. It's a little hard for them to see lift their dresses and squirt at the same time, but it was funny watching them try.

Seventh, rehearsal dinner for the big wedding. Paul and Amy’s rehearsal dinner was at the church. It was a fun occation until we had to meet in the santuary for the actual rehearsal. The heat and the humidity were outragious! We were all hot and were not looking forward the next day being all dressed up in long heavy dresses and tuxedos…but we were looking forward to the wedding!

All of the sudden my cousin Steve said "Kristen watch the fan!" OG, of course, was right by it and right as Steve said that her dress got caught in it. It's a fan from 1900, I think, and therefore there is NO protection on the fan part itself. Kari, Amy's sister turned around and grabbed OG before she stuck her hand in the fan. All the while, Pastor was oblivious to what was going on and just kept talking.Eighth, WEDDING DAY! The day was perfect. Hot, but not too humid. Sunny and beautiful! A perfect day for a perfect wedding. I love weddings and I get very emotional at them as well, so I figured it was best to get the crying out and overwith BEFORE the wedding started. Weeks before the wedding I decided I wanted to give Paul something of my dad’s. So I found a watch in my dad’s jewelry box. I had a new battery put in and had it all cleaned up nicely and wrote him a nice card. I met him alone to give him the present. He read the card, opened the gift, and we both started crying and we hugged a few times and cried in each others arms. My dad would’ve been so proud and so happy for Paul to have found Amy and have her in our family. I know he was with us that day and I know he was sad that he couldn’t be there for Paul. So after Paul and I had our moment, I went back to the girls room where Amy was getting her hair done, with tears still running down my face, told Amy what had happened and she started crying, then two of her other bridesmaids started crying too. It was just one big cry-fest. But at least we got it all out…or so I thought. The day went on and we went for pictures to a park, it was fun and pretty and HOT. Then we got back to the church for more pictures in the un-air-conditioned santuary again. Once pictures were all finished we just waited for the ceremony to begin. Right before we were to line up to walk down the aisle Amy’s cousin said “one of the twins pooped.” I just about died. Amy’s wedding was going to be held up because one of my girls pooped. I raced down the hall to get a diaper and put who I thought had pooped on the nursery changing table, low and behold, NO POOP. I grabbed the other baby and took her diaper off, NO POOP. I guess it was better checking then making her sit in it for another hour, but dang I wish I would’ve really checked before I raced around. So we all get lined up to walk down the aisle and the mistress of ceremony opens the girls side door and ALL I see is Paul lighting the remeberance candle for my dad. Yup, I lost it again! And this time I couldn’t stop crying. I had tears running down my face as I walked down the aisle and as I was standing in the front and during the song we sang, yup, I was a wreck! Finally I concentrated on Pastor and what he was saying and calmed myself down. GEEZ, I really need to learn to control my emotions! The ceremony was wonderful, other than Amy almost passing out. The finally tied the knot and we were off to the reception. The reception was at Thousand Oaks Country Club. It was beautiful and the place was filled with family and friends. Again a perfect setting and a wonderful atmosphere, until the bride got sick. I was devestated for Amy. She had dreamed of this day her whole life and she couldn’t even enjoy it. She was miserable and I couldn’t do anything about it. I knew that she would want the party to go on, so I helped make that happen. I kept the dancing going. At one point my mom said, “have you even missed one song yet?” I had, but not too many. I was out there the whole evening having a blast and looking ridiculous, ALL for Amy! It’s the least I could do to help her and be there for her! I did have fun and NO I was NOT drunk, like some thought (I guess it was my dancing, I’m not much of a dancer!). Anyway, the whole day ended up being great, even though Amy was sick. So that just about brings you up to speed on the month of June. I’ll try my hardest to update this earlier next time. Until then, be safe and have fun!